A part of Fr. Walter Ciszek's book He Leadeth Me brought me this wisdom:
Each day, every day of out lives, God presents to us the people and opportunities upon which he expects us to act. He expects no more of us, but he will accept nothing less of us; and if we fail in our promise and commitment if we do not see in the situations of every moment of every day is divine will.
That about says it and I have to trust that.